Most of the trans women on here, are just trying to find their way. But one thing I wanted to talk about real quick, is how a lot of trans women on here hold onto straight up misogynistic ideals in addition to being trans. All I want to tell you is, if this is you, you should stop. AFABs are not your enemy, and while the world can be cruel, I will let you know that if cis women avoid you, there's a good chance it's because you don't like them. Lesbians, trans men, they generally are just sensitive to male toxicity, and aren't just bigoted towards you or aliens who are incapable of accepting you. I say this as a trans woman who has had lots of such friends and romantic interests, and no they don't hate you if you're tall, think you're ugly, or are neurodivergent, you just have to stop giving them a reason to be scared of you. Don't get entitled, don't despair, just try to realize they're way more like you than you think and have many of the same (and different) struggles.
Most of the trans women on here, are just trying to find their way. But one thing I wanted to talk about real quick, is how a lot of trans women on here hold onto straight up misogynistic ideals in addition to being trans. All I want to tell you is, if this is you, you should stop. AFABs are not your enemy, and while the world can be cruel, I will let you know that if cis women avoid you, there's a good chance it's because you don't like them. Lesbians, trans men, they generally are just sensitive to male toxicity, and aren't just bigoted towards you or aliens who are incapable of accepting you. I say this as a trans woman who has had lots of such friends and romantic interests, and no they don't hate you if you're tall, think you're ugly, or are neurodivergent, you just have to stop giving them a reason to be scared of you. Don't get entitled, don't despair, just try to realize they're way more like you than you think and have many of the same (and different) struggles.