This is a genuine question. I'm a lipstick lesbian and I seem to have a really hard time finding other lesbians. Is it that most lesbians want a butch type girl or? I've been told by both men and women that I'm really pretty and should model (not to brag), I'm educated and in med school, have my own car, a job and my own place and I think I'm pretty normal.I tried dating websites because I live in a fairly small religious town so not a lot of women here would even think to come out and because there's not a lot of people here to start with but I have a lot of big cities near me (within 30 minutes-2 hours). Anyways, even on the dating websites I get fairly few messages (but to be honest I don't really send them out either) but I do favorite profiles and such and I know on OKC when people look at my profile and I see them look but then they don't message me. :( My profiles are positive and normal I don't say anything negative or weird.
Is there something I should go out of my way to say or do?