I just dont understand where they get the money and it feels rude to ask. to some extent paying a ton money for SRS seems almost frivolous when I could put it toward a house/classesim mostly stealth for long timr but have a decent bit of s*xual trauma + bottom dysphoria is p awful so I kinda just gave up on dating/sex at all until I can afford SRS but still even if I had 30k or 10k even its like. Dont I have more important things to spend that money on than going to the beach in a bikini/cooming with a partner???