I wasted my 20s in a toxic relationship that isolated me from my family and left me broken and codependent to a partner that simply doesnt care about me at all but is quick to cry and show affection when i tell them my intent to leave this toxic relationship. They have said about a dozen times "this relationship is gonna end in a murder suicide and we both know it", while neglecting any effort to show they love me. They constantly try to cuddle me and touch me when I repeatedly recoil from it basically every time.How do you leave without being the stereotypical rapehon predator that uses womens shelters?