First of all, I'm not gay. Nor do I want to be associated with LGBT crap in any way, shape or form. However I mutually respected you guys so I want your help in my time of need. In January my own mother came out to me claiming she's gay. She used to be married to my dad but divorced after like 6 months and when I was around 10, he migrated elsewhere making my mom my primary guardian. I absolutely, positively love my mother. No doubts about that. So when she came out about her sexuality (something we didn't talk about a lot mind you), I was ecstatic because she found me trustworthy enough to share about it. Of course I told her that I completely support her (like how a parent would tell their child instead here it's the opposite)
Recently, and I mean last Monday, she introduced me to her girlfriend. She said that she's been seeing her for 3 years now (so which means she kept it a secret from me right?). This woman is an absolute creature. I mean she's jacked. Like a lot of upper body muscle definition (unlike "normal" women). She also has a fucking mustache for fucks sake. Also sporting bright neon red hair. My mom introduced her as a "her". We exchanged greetings and we unironically follow each other on Instagram now.
So, first question.
She seems cool enough, but I'm a normal straight guy. Why do I not like her? I think that she secretly hates me for some reason. I do not feel comfortable around her.
Second,
Is she trans? Like is/was she male? My mom referred to her as "her" and her insta doesn't say anything about being trans. So wtf is she? Why does she look so weird?
Third, and probably the most important one.
Is my mom going to be okay? Like is she safe with her? You know, with lesbians and domestic violence statistics and shit. What about things like AIDS? How do I know if she's fine with her?
And that's it. TIA if you at least tried taking my post seriously.