How do I get over the idea that I have been permanently mutilated as a result of being transgender? I genuinely hate my body and who I am and I don't want to live a life where I constantly pity myself. I am trying to find some reason to stop my self pity.I am pretty tall and elf looking. I have a lot of insecurity specifically about my genitals. People keep telling me to try and become more comfortable with my body and appearance so I can have better sex but my penis makes me very uncomfortable. It's just too big and makes me upset.
How do you get more comfortable? Should I just get srs?