>come out to family as a bichad thinking it will be liberating>years later, still hung up on trying to live up to the upper middle class cishet NPR liberal's ideal of the wholesome family values faggot so my family will think I'm cool and not a degenerate coomer who shoves things in his ass for fun
>100% of men try to get me to "come out of the closet" and give me the "I remember when I was just like you" speech
>ciswomen think I'm just using them as a beard
>trannies think my existence is worse than the holocaust (which "didn't happen, but it should have")
>get gatekept in "queer" spaces because I dress like an adult with a job and not a wannabe punk rocker emo kid from 2005 hot topic
I should have just stayed in the closet, what the fuck was I thinking
Bichads, there's no avantage to just not being straight. Don't do it. It will just make things worse and there's no save point to start over.