Long story short, I came out to them when i turned 18. Their reaction was awful and i repressed for a long time because of it.Fast forward to a couple of days ago, where i talked to them to go see a therapist cause i needed to talk with someone and my father said that he had grown about the topic and understands that the way i can be happy may not be the way he likes the most. But at the end of the day he just wants to see me happy.
Although when i try to explain to them that what i want to transition they always claim that i'm jumping to conclusions and in every fucking sentence they basically say that i should wait more time and get more life experience outside of my room.
Which is kinda right, i spend way to many fucking hours closed in, but like i try to explain that the trans stuff is like so fucking oppressing that doing anything social hurts. And he just defaults to "i don't think it is as serious as you think bozo, get more life experience before making that decision".
I'm almost 21 now, and have been with this shit weighting me down for 7+ years so i know it is something that i need to address. How do i make them realize that?