I'm so sick of the trans (and broader queer) community. Not only are there are a lot of hurt people hurting others and I was kinda stalked by one such person recently, but also the dating and social scene is fucking cancer.All there is pre-established poly, or worse pretend/non-practicing poly relationships. What this basically means is that if you do not currently have a partner or lost one from transitioning, you're about to get fucked over z. cuz all these people who you THOUGHT were available to you have fucking primary partners. What do you have? Nothing!
Its this giant fucking distraction you have to learn to avoid, because you'll never get a real partner. So yeah, welcome to being MORE alone. Why people think that watching all your prospects dry up before you is a worth being nonmonogamous is fucking beyond me. But you're still just some side bitch on the bleachers for fucking ever. Its just a nicer way to pretend your not just a piece of meat.
Fuck poly...